“These words, which I am commanding you today, shall be on your heart. 7 You shall teach them diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up.” Deuteronomy 6:6,7
As
a grandmother of 9 very special little gifts, I realize that these verses from
Deuteronomy are both relevant and applicable to the relationship that I have
with my grandchildren. This became abundantly clear to me again last Christmas
as we received family Christmas Cards with pictures of families all together or
with all the grandchildren in pictures with their grandparents. How this grandmother’s heart longs to have
her family altogether in one place, but it’s not to be.
So
how do I do this in a practical way when my grandchildren are literally spread
out all over the North American continent? The most important impact I can have
on their lives is through prayer, daily praying for each grandchild by name,
praying specific scriptures for them just as I prayed for their parents a
generation before. And when the occasion presents itself, whether in person or
online, I try to let them know that they are in my thoughts and prayers daily,
whether they are near, living here in the same city as we do, or far away.
I
not only pray for them, but with them when we are together. I have personally
chosen to daily find things to be thankful for, and so I ask them what they are
thankful for that day. Some find it easier to think of something, but with each
one we search through the memories of the day to find something. In this way I model that heart of gladness
and giving thanks in all things that scripture teaches us we are to have.
My
husband is a storyteller, and so when the grandchildren are here for the
evening or overnight, they get to hear his stories. With modern technology, he
can also tell the far-away grands stories, which are a highlight for them as
well. He weaves in scripture and teaches about the character traits that the
bible tells us are important. I don’t tell stories, but I can read to them and
have on occasion given them the same books that we have here at our house so
they can have their own copy to look at as I read.
How
can you teach your children or grandchildren what the Lord has commanded you?
Dear Heavenly Father,
Thank you for the gift of our
family, both our children and our grandchildren. We pray that they would be
filled with the knowledge of Your will in all knowledge and understanding, so
that they would walk in a manner worthy of You. Amen.
1 comment:
This is a great post and encouragement! I kike to ask them what I can pray for but I like the idea of asking them what they are thankful for. I also needed the reminder to pray scripture.
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